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| Bestselling Author & Radio Personality "The Relationship Strategist" Kenny Pugh |
Kenny Pugh,“The Relationship Strategist” is the author of bestselling title, “Can You Do IT Standing Up? A Different Position on Relationships” (November 2011).
We've been working with the "Celibate, Committed & Courageous" eligible bachelor with his book, that has sold thousands of copy to date. We recently sat down and spoke with Kenny about his message of promoting sexually purity during courtship.
With Kenny's insights in his latest book, he has advice for single men and women and pleading with them to not allow the approaching "V-Day" take them backsliding into unhealthy relationships.
Here are some insights:
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Meet your partner at a volunteer event – Kenny states that having shared goals gives a relationship more of a foundation
to build upon and instead of adding ‘notches’ to your belt, you can actually
add ‘bricks’ that will make the possibilities for a long-term relationship more
of a reality.
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Wait to have sex – He is a single man
that has practiced celibacy over the past several years in dating
relationships. Kenny credits keeping sex absence from the relationship has given
him a clearer picture of whether his love interest is a good match or a ‘good
look’ and since sex is kept out of the equation, it has led to building great
friendships thereby avoiding misleading someone once it’s determined there is
nothing in common outside of the initial physical attraction.
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Date Yourself – Kenny encourages singles to
date themselves first and foremost to become the “Mr. or Ms. Right” they are
seeking in someone else. Mr. Pugh points out in his book that there is often a
lopsided ratio that says there are more women to a single man, therefore giving
men the upper-hand, however, in his book, Pugh states, “the QUANTITY of women
has NO correlation to the QUALITY of available women.” He concludes that men
often find there are more unqualified women than they are quality women and if
individuals focus on improving themselves first then they’ll be more likely to
attract a quality mate that will lead to long-term benefits such as marriage.
Kenny wishes to serve as a vessel of understanding in an era of disconnected, aimless, and broken relationships, and to soothe adversities of all forms, whether practical, relational, or spiritual. Through years of experience as a facilitator, workshop presenter, and keynote speaker at various conferences, ministry services, and for profit corporate events, Kenny has refined his sense of relationship success through the art of communication, willingness to be vulnerable and promoting sexual purity between dating couples.
There are more dating insights to explore in Kenny Pugh’s book, “Can You Do ITStanding Up?” so be sure to purchase yours today and sign-up for the next CYDISU event or book tour at www.kennypugh.com.
